DONNA SHEEHAN & PAUL REFFELL
Founders of Baring Witness

End the Gender Wars or Die


Redefining Seduction:
Women Initiating Courtship and Partnership

With a background in genetic behavioralism and a series of Redefining Seduction workshops conducted in Marin County, California, Donna Sheehan and Paul Reffell are leading a cultural wakeup call by writing the Redefining Seduction book.

Redefining Seduction gives women permission to initiate courtship, in contrast to cultural norms. It is the foundation for a shift from patriarchy to a partnership society. When women "remember" the power they possess to shape their lives and to educate men in the skills of partnership, the patriarchal system will begin to transform to true partnership; men and women working together to use their masculine and feminine traits to create a sustainable society.

It all begins by casting off old associations of sin and temptation, returning seduction to its rightful, delightful place as a feminine skill. Think of it as men’s liberation from the Hollywood leading man myth – they no longer have to take the lead in dating, only stay alert for the subtle signals that women will use once they remember their natural power.

The book will demolish the mythical stereotypes that have relegated women to the passive role in courtship and society, and will teach women and men how to create true partnership, beginning with their own relationships. Paul Reffell reveals men’s secrets - the Male Mask, the damage and fear caused by adolescent rejection, their hidden needs - and Donna gives women the tools to assume their rightful biological place as initiators of courtship and partnership.

Like the workshops, the book will be life-altering, boundary-busting, outspoken, practical and fun for women and men of all ages. No other relationship author has dared to state the obvious – women are designed to choose their perfect mates and bring them into dynamic partnership.

Co-authors:  Donna Sheehan and Paul Reffell
Book will be released March, 2004

 


About Donna and Paul

Donna Sheehan is an artist, writer, and community/environmental activist. She founded Mow & Sow, a grass-roots, non-profit environmentalist organization in California. Working with the California Department of Transportation and California Department of Parks and Recreation, she convinced them both to alter their vegetation management guidelines to more sustainable, less toxic practices. The ensuing EIR led to a statewide change in mitigation techniques, as well as inspiring a national movement for planting and mowing roadsides instead of spraying toxic chemicals. She received the Environmental Action Committee’s Environmentalist of the Year Award for her community activism.

Donna began a native grass collection, propagation and planting program, using greenhouses owned by The Audubon Society. The program was focused on roadside planting, to reduce the need for weed and erosion control, but also educated and inspired landowners to plant natives rather than exotics.

Donna was a founder and board member of the ORLO Foundation of Portland, Oregon, a non-profit organization synthesizing the arts and environmental activism, mainly concerned with logging and grazing practices.

As curator of the first Beyond Artifice symposium and exhibition, an interaction between environmentalists, artists and the community, giving impetus to the Eco-Art movement.

Her photographic show, Black Beach, White Light, helped focus public awareness on over-fishing issues and environmental degradation in California waters. Her print workshops (Editions Variés) and her Point Reyes Fine Art Gallery were the first of their kind in West Marin. She has produced several major bodies of work, concerned with environmental issues and the human condition. They may be seen in galleries in New York, Los Angeles and Santa Fe.

Donna founded Citizens for Safety; a non-profit organization dedicated to public-safety issues in her community.

She is accredited as an instructor of the Permaculture Design Course. She has twenty years of experience in counseling, organizing and teaching in the fine arts, environmental and community fields. Donna created Redefining Seduction, a series of counseling workshops teaching women to give themselves permission to initiate courtship, build relationship and create partnership in issues that affect their lives.

Donna was a travel agent, professional cyclist, and tour guide. While working her way around the world in her twenties, she worked for the US Counter-Intelligence Corps in Tokyo and Berlin.

She was born on April 1st.

Paul Reffell, has written poetry, fiction, and non-fiction on Nature and human nature. He has written and performed his works on stage and on radio.

Paul studied architecture before becoming a blue-water sailor and  charter skipper. He has been an estate manager, building contractor, caretaker, and freelance writer.

Donna and Paul have collaborated on many projects. These include the BrainLines book and personality-profiling system, using physical genetic indicators of left/right brain traits; co-founding KWMR, a community radio station in Marin County, California; activism on private-prison issues in California; managing a B&B; creating two outdoor interactive art installations - Wargasm, which protested the erosion of liberties and increase in hostilities following 9/11, and Pro-Degradation, which exhorted humans to consume, reproduce, battle, and pollute even more than we do already, in order to speed our extinction for the sake of the planet’s remaining species; Baring Witness, the global movement in which people spell out pro-peace messages with their bodies.

Donna & Paul do not watch television, nor do they believe everything they read. They have an old Mercedes powered by bio-diesel and a VW camper powered by hope. They specialize in under-funded, ambitious, life-altering projects, such as their relationship.
 

 

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